In my previous article, I have
mentioned that aged and wealthy Arabs from the Gulf countries come to India,
mainly to Hyderabad, Andhra Pradesh, to prey on teenage girls, by paying fat cash
as dowry to their parents. They generally enter into temporary marriage
contracts (Mutah) and return home after a brief stay.In January, 2007, a 60
year old Arab married 3 girls, Afreen, Farheena and Sultana, at a single
sitting (within ten minutes), in Hyderabad.
In another incident in May 2004, an old man called
Muhammad Zafer Yaqub Hassan al-Jorani came from Sharjah to Hyderabad to undergo
a cataract operation. On May 7, he married Haseena Begum, a 19 year old girl
and after two days he divorced her. On May 24, he married another 16 year old
girl Ruksana Begum. Haseena, ignoring even threat to her life, went to a local
police station to narrate her story and within an hour police arrested Jorani.
Police also arrested someone called Shamsuddin who was alleged to have played
the role of a mediator and received a cash of Rs 40,000 from Jorani and handed
over the money to the parents of Haseena as mehr. It is to be mentioned
here that Jorani, at his Sharjah residence, had two wives and 11 children.
While commenting on these affairs, a reader wrote, “In
child marriage of the other type, where young girl marries an old man, is
prevalent in Muslim society in India. I am an ex-Muslim from India and such
facts I have seen in my own eyes. I tried to alert police but was threatened by
police themselves with dire consequences, even death, and so I kept quiet.
In various cities, where there are Muslim ghettos, this happens regularly.
Muslims condemn prostitution but allow legal prostitution through temporary marriage
or Mutah. Young girls of16-18-year-old are married to aged Arabs, for a
stipulated period, simply for money. Mullahs make the old Arab and young girls
sign nikahnama and talaknama at the same time.
Parents get money and send their daughter as a prostitute to the Arab to be
raped. The Arab then divorces her after a stipulated time that may vary from a
few hours to a few days. Things move fast because the next victim is waiting in
the queue. Generally, beautiful girls are entered in the waiting list and many
of them have to entertain their (temporary) rapist husbands every year. The
month of Ramadan is busiest period of this business when many Indian girls are
sent to Dubai and from Dubai to elsewhere, to be sexually assaulted by the
Arabs, after Ramadan fasting.
Generally, the girls earns anywhere from Rs 15,000 to Rs 500,000, depending
on the skill of the negotiator (middleman) and also on the beauty of the girl.
If she happens to be a virgin, she earns a lot more, as Arabs are ready to
spend fabulous money for a first time sex.
Now-a-days, there are plastic surgeons, I know,
are earning lot from the pimps by turning the girls virgin again by attaching a
layer of fresh skin to their private parts and thus making an artificial hymen.
This happens repeatedly for many girls till she gets tired or fails to find a
new (temporary) husband.
Local police, political leaders and NGOs get
their share too and keep silence. I can even spell names of some people, who
are involved in the racket. But my life is already under threat due to
disclosing the truth about Islam. I also don’t want annoy the local police
because they may just shoot me in a false encounter and get paid by the racket
leaders. Such an incident happened earlier. This is, indeed, another horrible
face of Islam.”
Another reader commented, “Dear old Muslims in the
Middle East who are planning to marry a girl as young as 6 yrs old to be your
bride, kindly let me have the honour to ask you a very simple question. Try
imagining that the young 6-year-old bride whom you’re going to marry soon, is
your daughter or granddaughter or great granddaughter or great-great
granddaughter and that you are going to penetrate her very small vagina with
your big xxxxx. Do you feel it nauseating or disgusting at the very thought of
it? I believe that for those old Muslims who have some human conscience or fear
of God will be kind enough to let all these young girls go.”
Another reader commented “I believe that for those
old Muslims who have some human conscience or fear of God will be kind enough
to let all these young girls go. As for those old Muslims who still can’t let
all these young girls go because of their super strong sexual needs, may I
suggest a much better option for you which could help satisfy all your sexual
needs or cravings and that is, to go and buy a sex doll from any sex shop and
sell all these erotic products. Don’t you think that your Allah will be pleased
with my kind suggestion here which is better than destroying all those young
innocent girls’ life? Thank you in advance for heeding my advice to give all
these young innocent muslimahs a chance to live life to the fullest.”
In this context, it should be mentioned that, in
Islam, there is no place for ethics, morality or conscience. Islamic morality
is quite different and stands on two notions – Halal (permitted) and Haram (not
permitted). To a sane non-Muslim individual, marrying a 6 or 8-year-old
girl by an over 50 man, may appear to be highly immoral, unethical and vulgar. But
to a Muslim, such an act is Halal, as Prophet Muhammad had done it. So, application
of personal sense morality and ethics does not play any role. Whatever the
Prophet did is Halal and every Muslim has the right to emulate the Prophet.
Another reader wrote, “These old wolfs who
practice such disgusting acts by following their Prophet are wild animals. They
don’t even deserve to live. These innocent young brides should be given some
poison by their mothers which they can mix with some food and feed their
wonderful husbands on the first night and finish them off. The Human Rights
activists can defend them saying these children are minor and they do not know
what they are doing. Even few years of jail sentence is much better than living
with these animals. If more and more child-brides start rebelling by giving the
due punishment to these animals, this cruel practice will vanish.”
Out of court settlement allows Saudi girl 8 to
divorce 50 year old husband:
As mentioned in the previous
article that a Saudi judge refused to terminate the marital bond between an
8-year-old girl and her 47-year-old husband. The girl’s father, according to
the attorney, took US$13,000 from the man and arranged the marriage in order to
settle his debts with him, who is also a close friend of his. On the other
hand, the girl’s mother expressed her determination to fight the case and
continue to seek daughter’s divorce.
According to a press report, appeared on April 30,
2009, from Hadeel Al-Shalchi of the Associated Press, the mother of the
girl had been succeeded to obtain a divorce for her daughter through out of the
court negotiation. “The girl was allowed to divorce the about 50-year-old man,
whom she was married to by force, in August last year, and after an
out-of-court settlement, a divorce could be obtained in the case”, said her
lawyer, Abdulla al-Jeteli.
The reader may recall that a court in the central
Oneiza region previously rejected a request by the girl’s mother for a divorce
and ruled that the girl would have to wait until she reached puberty to file a
petition. It has been mentioned earlier that there are no laws in Saudi Arabia
defining the minimum age for marriage for girls. Though, according to the
Shariah Law, a woman’s consent is legally required, most of the marriage
officials don’t seek it.
(A mass child marriage ceremony in Gaza, sponsored
HAMAS,on July 30, 2009, 450 child-brides were married to much older grooms)
Recently, due to increased social awakening, there
has been a thrust by Saudi human rights groups to define the minimum age of
marriage for girls and put an end to the shameful tradition of child marriage.
Sohaila Zain al-Abdeen, one of the most renowned human rights activists in
Saudi Arabia, was optimistic that the girl’s divorce would be an important
precedence and help efforts to get a new law passed enforcing a minimum
marriage age of 18 for the girls. “Unfortunately, some fathers trade their
daughters. They are weak people who are sometimes in need of money and forget
their roles as parents.” she told The Associated Press.
But it was not clear whether the husband got back the
money, nearly 50,000 riyals, or about US$13,350, he paid to the father of the
girl as dowry, the lawyer said.
This was not the only incident of marrying off an
8-year-old girl to an old man, in the kingdom that attracted public attention.
Saudi newspapers have highlighted several cases in which young girls were
married off to much older men. In one incident a 15-year-old girl, whose father
serving prison terms with a death penalty, married her off to a cellmate.
An 8 yr old Yemeni girl forced to marry a man Nujood
Ali, more than 3 times her age. He used to beat and rape the 8-year-old victim.
Ultimately, she escaped, and found a human rights lawyer to help her get a
divorce. Under Sharia Law, her husband received compensation from the family,
and was never prosecuted. (See Videos – http://barenakedislam.wordpress.com/2009/01/03/forced-child-marriage-in-islam/)
Zahida Minhas, a 16-year
old girl who was sold into a forced marriage by her mother. Somehow, she could
escape her husband’s house. Now she is 9 months pregnant and living in a safe
house. But as her delivery date approaches, she fears that her “husband” will
find and kill her.
A 12-year old Muslim girl in Afghanistan fears for
her life from the pedophile husband she was forced to marry. Her husband
attacked her with a knife and injured her hand. She is seeking a divorce from
her cruel and pedophile husband. There is, indeed, no end to these type
incidents in the Muslim societies. And, in fact, Saudi Arabia is the main
source inspiration for child-marriage and pedophilia in the world community of
Muslims.
But it is good sign that Saudi Arabia has come under
increasing criticism at home and abroad for permitting child marriages and
pedophilia. The United States, a close ally of the conservative Muslim kingdom,
has called child marriage a “clear and unacceptable” violation of human rights.
But Saudi Arabia’s conservative Muslim clergy is opposing the drive to end
child marriages. It has been mentioned earlier that in January, 2009, the kingdom’s most senior cleric said it
was permissible for 10-year-old girls to marry and those who believe they are
too young are doing injustice to the girl. “After all, Sharia Law has been ordained and hence cannot do
injustice to women”, he said.
There is another ray of hope, Some in the Saudi
government appear to support the movement to set a minimum age for marriage.
The kingdom’s new justice minister was quoted in mid-April as saying that the
government was carrying out a study on underage marriage that would include
regulations.
But there are no statistical data to show how many
marriages involving children are performed in Saudi Arabia every year.
Activists say the girls are given away in return for hefty marriage dowry or as
a result of long-standing custom in which a father promises his infant
daughters and sons to cousins out of a belief that marriage will protect them
from illicit relationships.
It has been mentioned earlier that there are no laws
in Saudi Arabia defining the minimum age for marriage for girls and according
to the Saudi clerics, one can enter into a marriage contract even with 1-year-old
girl. Though a woman’s consent is legally required, most of the marriage
officials, called ma’thoons do not seek it. Only these ma’thoons have the legal
authority to preside over marriage contract ceremonies. They seek consent of
the groom and the woman’s guardian and if they approve of the marriage, the
ma’thoon proceeds to complete the ceremony by signing the marriage papers. But,
as stated above, the Saudi government does not keep any statistical record to
show how many Saudi children are married off per year, which it can easily do
by collecting data from these ma’thoons.
Sheikh Abdul Aziz Al-Asheikh, the Kingdom's grand
mufti Says, “It's an injustice to NOT marry girls aged 10”.
In this context it may be mentioned that the Arabic
word “nikah” does not mean what the word marriage stands for. According to Mohammad
Asghar, the word “nikah” has been derived from “nokh”, which refers to woman’s
vagina and hence the word “nikah” stands for penetration of woman’s vagina (see:
The Meaning of Nikah in Islam).
Child marriage that sparked uproar in Saudi
Arabia:
According to a news appeared on August 6, 2008, in
the Riyadh based dailies Al-Watan and. Al-Harbi, a nikah between
an 11-year-old boy Muhammad al-Rashidi and a 10-year-old girl has been declared
by Muraiziq al-Rashidi, the groom’s father. But the ceremony has been strongly
opposed by the governor of the northern province of Hail, who considered the
elementary school student too young to marry. Opposition has also came from
some human rights groups.
“We are studying this issue so we can put an end to
this phenomenon,” said Zuhair al-Harithi, boardmember of the Human Rights
Commission, a human rights group run by the government. “These marriages
violate international agreements the kingdom has signed”, he said. Though the
incident created a stir in the kingdom, Sheik Muhammad al-Nujaimi, a strong
opponent of child marriage, said, “But the phenomenon is not new.” He and other
clerics, activists and writers have requested the government for issuing a new
law setting a minimum age for marriage and to resolve differences among
religious authorities over the issue. “There are different (religious) opinions
regarding such marriages, which is why we need the government to settle the
issue through a new legislation,” said al-Nujaimi.
Activists say that incidents of this kind of marriage
between a young girl and a young boy are not so high in Saudi Arabia. These are
the result of long-standing custom in which a father promises his infant
daughters and sons to cousins out of a belief that such a marriage will protect
them from illicit relationships. Muraiziq al-Rashidi, the father of the
11-year-old boy’s said he may delay but not cancel his son’s marriage. “God
willing, we will hold the wedding next year,” he said. It has been pointed
out earlier that, Ahmad Al-Muabi, a marriage official, defended the
practice of child marriage by saying that, “A man can enter into a marriage
contract even with a one-year-old girl, not to mention nine years, seven years or
eight years. This is just a contract indicating consent.”
(http://edition.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/12/23/saudi.arabia.child.marriage/index.html
and http://www.asianews.it/news-en/Marriage-between-11-year-old-boy-and-10-year-old-girl-puts-the-spotlight-on-child-marriage-12953.html)
However, In the midst of total darkness, one finds a
ray of hope in two incidents, which are discussed below.
An old man marrying a child bride in Saudi Arabia
A 12-year-old
Module body
Islamic Voice (IV) is a
Bangalore based monthly. This year’s (2010 AD) February edition IV carried a
startling news that said, “Sheikh Abdullah Al-Mane’, a member of the Board of
Senior Ulema and an Advisor to the Royal Court in Saudi Arabia, has said that ‘Holy Prophet’s Marriage with Ayesha (RA)
cannot be a precedence’. Prophet Muhammad’s
(pbuh) marriage to Ayesha when she was nine years old cannot be used as
justification for child marriage today due to the “different circumstances” of
the time, said a news report in the Jeddah based Saudi Gazette.”
“According to Sheikh Al-Mane’, when Abu Bakr (may
Allah be pleased with him) was contemplating marrying off his daughter he was
unable to find anyone better than the Prophet (pbuh). It is impossible to use
the marriage of Ayesha, the ‘Mother of Believers’ (May Allah be pleased with
her) as a measure for child marriage because of the incompatibility of the
conditions and circumstances,” Sheikh Al-Mane’ said”, the news continued.
Today, child marriage is an issue that has come to
the fore in the kingdom of Saudi Arabia, particularly after the incident in
which a 12-year-old girl successfully divorced her 80-year-old husband in
Buraidah, as discussed above. “A court in Qassim is scheduled to look into the
case on Monday, while the Human
Rights Commission has also set up a Shariah specialist team to investigate and
meet with the marriage official who conducted the marriage rites”, report said.
The report also said that, “Sheikh Al-Mane urged
scholars and preachers to take responsibility in making parents aware of the
social and mental damage caused by the marriage of minors.”
“It is a grave error to burden a child with
responsibilities beyond her years,” the Sheikh said. “Marriage should be put
off until the wife is of a mentally and physically mature age and can care for
both herself and her family,” he added. “We need a law banning and preventing
the marriage of under-18s,” said Mufleh Al-Qahtani, Chairman of the National
Society for Human Rights, which has taken part in drawing up a law to protect
children and is pushing for its legal approval. (http://islamicvoice.com/February2010/)
Source: http://www.faithfreedom.org/?p=12307
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